Origin - Chapter 1032
[Chapter 967 No more doubts]
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Wu Zhongyuan said this to the girl. Although he said it casually, it was the only correct way to do it. Any other way could not prove his innocence. There is no trust at all, ‘including ‘we should respect each other, you can’t invade my privacy’, and all kinds of anger and anger, all of which can only show that they are guilty and that there is something they are hiding from the other party, if they really have a clear conscience , you can let the other party check it generously, even if you are very disgusted with the other party’s behavior of distrusting yourself, you must first prove your innocence before arguing or even breaking up with the other party. All doubts and criticisms are not qualified to deny and refute.
The girl can’t move or even speak now, she is in doubt and shock that she can’t move suddenly, but Wu Zhongyuan didn’t want her to say anything, and turned to the boy who was also stunned and said, “You have to understand how to check the other party’s mobile phone. What is the nature? This is a great distrust of the other party, which will seriously hurt the other party’s feelings. Once you make such a request, the other party will only have two choices: agree or disagree, which is equivalent to driving the other party to a dead end. If she is really okay, you have to think carefully about how to compensate her, and if she is really problematic, you have to be mentally prepared to lose her.”
Wu Zhongyuan disappeared after speaking. He didn’t leave, but just disappeared. He wasn’t sure if there was anything wrong with the girl. He wanted to see the boy’s reaction and the final result.
After he disappeared, the two regained their freedom. After they both looked around, their eyes focused on the mobile phone. It was the girl’s mobile phone, but it was in the boy’s hands now. Due to the short time, the screen of the mobile phone had not dimmed. Lock.
Wu Zhongyuan very much hopes that the boy will take the initiative to return the mobile phone to the girl, and he also hopes that the girl will hand the mobile phone to the boy again. If this is true, it means that one of the two parties has tolerance and the other is fine. This is the best result.
But unfortunately, after the boy came back to his senses, he immediately took the mobile phone and turned to go west. The girl reacted and quickly followed, and stretched out her hands one after another to snatch the mobile phone.
The boy refused while checking, Wu Zhongyuan was next to him, he wanted to see what the boy was watching, the boy directly opened WeChat, and scrolled down the contacts, and he didn’t stop while scrolling down.
Just when Wu Zhongyuan wondered why the girl was behaving so abnormally since there was no problem, the boy clicked on the WeChat address book again, and then clicked on the new friend at the top of the address book. At this time, the problem appeared. Last night, the girl passed two Personal application for adding friends, the boy clicked on the chat page of the two people, and the result was not a word, there is no chat record, there is a problem, because when adding friends, there will be a greeting message, and even the greeting message does not explain the chat information. It has been deleted, and the absence of the avatars of these two people on the main page also indirectly illustrates this point.
The boy then clicked on the two friends’ circle of friends, and found that it was full of fun, including famous cars and villas, skiing and golfing, exquisite food from various luxury western restaurants, and photos of various luxury goods.
In the circle of friends of two different people, the boy found the exact same photos of the Maldives vacation, and even the shooting angles were exactly the same. He immediately understood that these two were liars who stole pictures, but unfortunately, the girl is no longer After listening to him, he ignored his reprimands and questioning, grabbed the phone, turned into anger, and left in a huff.
The truth is already very clear, in fact, there is no need to ask any more, but the boy chased after her and asked her why she lied. The girl drooped her face and said nothing.
Seeing this situation, Wu Zhongyuan sighed. It was obvious that although the boy asked for the truth, he did not make enough psychological preparation. The so-called psychological preparation is divided into two parts, one is the psychological preparation to accept the truth, and the other is the loss of the other party. Be mentally prepared, when a person’s disguise is dismantled,
It will definitely turn into anger and end the relationship immediately, which is actually a hypocritical and cowardly escape.
The ancients said that people are not sages, no one has faults, especially young people, who make mistakes in a moment of confusion, as long as they can recognize their mistakes and are willing to correct and actively compensate the injured party, they should still be given a chance. After all, for those who have made mistakes, it also takes courage to stay cheeky. Compared with those who cut off the relationship with shame and anger after being dismantled, such people can still be saved.
However, the premise of giving a chance is that the person who has made mistakes puts himself in the right position, and no longer expects to be on an equal footing with the party who has been hurt by himself, because the person who has made mistakes is the person who made mistakes after all. It is unfair to those good people who have always been cautious and loving, and that people do not pay the price and cost of making mistakes.
The boy kept chasing the girl for an explanation, asking the girl what she did not do well, but the girl made up her mind, walked quickly with no expression on her face, and stopped talking to him.
Seeing her doing something wrong and pretending to be ruthless, Wu Zhongyuan couldn’t stand it. He wanted to possess the boy and give her a slap, but after thinking about it, he gave up. This kind of person is not one, but one type. But come, can’t wake up.
Comprehension is a very elusive thing. It is not like doing something. It is planned before, and when it is implemented, it will overcome all obstacles and obstacles, and then achieve the goal. The aura does not necessarily flash at any time. After restraining the thought of the possessed boy slapping the girl, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of a problem, which he had never understood before, and that was the joys, sorrows and sorrows after peeking into the Dao, and he was very worried that he would Seeing the essence and losing the joys, sorrows and joys of being a human being, now that I think about it, my worries are unnecessary, even if I see the essence of yin and yang, it will not lose joys, sorrows and joys, but it is more open-minded, just like everyone knows that they will eventually They will all die, but this does not affect their efforts to live, and understanding the nature of yin and yang will not cause the four elements to be empty.
What is the biggest trouble and obstacle for a person to improve the pattern?
The answer is fixed thinking. Before that, he subconsciously thought that being an immortal should not have joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. The reason for this idea is because in the eyes of the world, immortals are detached and different from ordinary people. If Just like ordinary people, this immortal is not a real immortal, and is not worthy of respect and worship, and even has the suspicion of swaying and cheating.
There is a saying that foreign monks will recite sutras. This sentence means that people always look up at those who do not know them well, but tend to look down on those who are familiar with them. They know and are familiar with the people around them, but they are unfamiliar and unfamiliar with others, and for those they don’t understand, people’s subconscious will have a sense of awe. One reason is that in a dark environment, people can’t see the surrounding situation clearly, because they are unknown, so they are afraid.
Because I don’t know others, I take a high look at others, but I don’t know that many times the really powerful people are by my side, but I just ignore them.
He grew up in modern times, and his consciousness was also established in modern times. His consciousness has obvious modern characteristics, and this characteristic of consciousness not only helped him a lot, but also troubled him a lot. It is to understand the immortals according to the cognition of modern people. This is his problem. It is like looking at people with tinted glasses, and it is difficult to be fair and objective.
What is a fairy like?
The answer is “certainly not what the world thinks it is.” Why?
Because the world has never seen a real immortal, the immortals in their eyes are shaped according to their own cognitive level, personal preferences and personal needs. To put it bluntly, the immortals in the eyes of the public are actually what they want.
In fact, immortals must have emotions, anger, sadness, and joy, not a templated character. Although they have mastered a huge ability and can distinguish between Yin and Yang, they have not lost their humanity.
In addition to being limited by his own inherent consciousness, the reason why he entered the misunderstanding earlier was that he cared too much about the views and attitudes of the world, worried that the results of enlightenment would not be understood and accepted by the world, and cared too much about the opinions of others. The common problem is that everyone wants to be recognized by others, and if they want to be recognized, they can only do what others want them to do.
Everyone wants to be respected by others. If you want to be respected, you must not do things beyond the level of the world’s cognition, and strive for success within the scope of the world’s definition of success.
Many people end up living the way others want them to live, or the way the society collectively needs them to live, not the way they really want to live.
This flash of inspiration took away Wu Zhongyuan’s last bit of confusion, and the direct consequence was to possess the boy, but he didn’t hit the girl, because the girl was still young, and what she did was only a bad omen. Not really touching the red line.
Although he controlled the boy’s body, he did not suppress the boy’s consciousness. The boy also knew what he said later. He took a few steps and grabbed the girl. The other party wanted to get rid of it, but Failed to do so.
“We’re young and we can’t do everything right, but you shouldn’t lie to me,” the boy said loudly.
“Let go of me, since you don’t believe me, why are you pulling me, let’s break up!” The girl twisted her arms hard, but she couldn’t get rid of the boy.
“Break up, break up,” the boy said loudly, “but you have to make it clear, you lied to me first, what right do you have to be angry with me? Just because I exposed your lies, you became angry and furious? I tell you , no matter how angry you are, things are still there. Do you think that if you get angry and confuse yourself, my thinking will be confused with you? I tell you, my mind is calm, my thinking is very clear, and I am not confused at all , you want good results on the one hand, and you want to find stimulation on the other hand, I tell you, there is no such beautiful thing in the world, and seeking stimulation has a price.”
Because the boy’s voice was loud, everyone nearby stopped to watch and whispered.
“you……”
“What are you? Have I wronged you? You know it in your heart. Go away, I don’t want you anymore.” The boy snorted and turned around and walked away.
The true heart-to-heart match will not cause fierce conflict. When one of the parties’ feelings fades, it is better to leave unrestrained than to give up the entanglement.
Pulling away the primordial spirit and attaching it back to the main body, I found that the communication device on my wrist was vibrating for a long time.
“Huh?” Wu Zhongyuan pressed the call button.
“Boss, why did you go to the university again? Have you eaten yet?” It was Fang Yi’s voice.
“Just finished eating, I’m arguing with college students.” Wu Zhongyuan said casually.
“God, do your business properly, that’s not what you should do,” Fang Yi was helpless, “Come back quickly, everyone is here, just wait for you to come back and choose…”?
[End of this Chapter]
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