Origin - Chapter 981
[Chapter 920]
“Normalization()”
It is a common problem in the world to like to watch the fun. The honest man beating his wife attracted a large number of onlookers from the villagers. When Wu Zhongyuan left, there were still many people who came to watch the fun after hearing the news.
Wu Zhongyuan wanders the streets of the village, looking for his next observation target. He likes to watch blind dates. The essence of blind dates is that strangers and men and women come into contact with each other. After reaching a consensus, they form partners and reproduce offspring. Common behaviors have certain observational value.
But the blind date doesn’t seem to be going on at night. After wandering for a while, I can’t see the target, so I start visiting the house. At this time, it is not over for dinner, and many people gather together to drink, and some eat early, in groups of three or five. Play cards.
When he wandered to the east of the village, Wu Zhongyuan heard the cry of the child, and it was quite painful, so he followed the sound to find the child. It was a father who was beating the child. The child was eleven or twelve years old. It was a boy. It was an accident, and he was being beaten with a stick by the father.
The father’s face was angry and he beat him very hard. Wu Zhongyuan listened to it for a while, and it turned out that it was not a big deal, but that the child went out to play overtime today and did not complete the homework assigned by the teacher.
Chinese people believe that filial sons are born under the stick. In fact, this kind of thinking is very wrong. Children should not be overly spoiled, but there is no need to be too strict. Children are children after all, and adults may not have enough self-control, let alone a child. child.
After beating the child, the father threw down his stick and went out to drink, leaving a mother to coax the child, only that your father beat you for your own good, I hope you can be successful when you grow up, don’t be like your parents Can only farm in the village.
The child nodded with tears in his eyes, and looked sensible. As for whether he really agreed with the mother’s statement, no one knew, because even gods didn’t know what other people were thinking.
For this kind of education method, Wu Zhongyuan is very disapproved, the reason is very simple, fathers and mothers are not qualified to be so strict with their children, because they themselves are not personal, but they are too strict with their children. It’s two old birds with no prospects who imposed their wishes on the little bird, and they couldn’t fly two miles, but they insisted on forcing the little bird to fly a hundred miles.
In fact, I don’t want children to farm in the countryside. The easiest way is for the parents to go out of the countryside by themselves. When the big bird goes out, the little bird will naturally go out. The way of education is to lead by example. If I fly 10,000 miles, you can fly me 8,000 miles. This is what a competent parent should do.
In all fairness, most parents are incompetent. They cannot lose the most basic objectivity and impartiality in order to sing the praises of their father’s love and praise their mother’s love. Why do many children appear rebellious in their adolescence?
It is not because the child has become bad, but because the child has grown up, has his own consciousness, and no longer succumbs to the parents’ incorrect education methods. avoidable.
Some things are chaos, and there is absolutely no need to delve into them, but some things are worth pondering. Take a father beating a child as an example. A father is the leader of a family and the captain of the family boat. If something goes wrong with the family , he has the main responsibility. The leader with greater power has greater responsibility. Where the flock eventually goes does not depend on the majority of followers, but on the will of the leader. To put it bluntly, it is power. The will of a few people at the top determines the fate of thousands of people. Taking himself as an example, he was the king of the human race in the ancient times, and his words directly determined the fate of the entire human race.
Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan had a vague feeling, and hurriedly teleported back to the brigade where he had settled before, sat down by the stove, closed his eyes to capture the vague thoughts that flashed in his mind just now, fortunately, he found it The feeling just now, what I just thought of was that the core characters determine the fate of thousands of people, and they want to change thousands of people.
There is no need to change each of them one by one, just their core characters.
The same is true for the change of aura. Previously, his method was only for specific auras, and he directly controlled and controlled a large number of auras in units of individuals. The specific point was to control a thousand or ten thousand auras at a time. Although the power was also very powerful, However, there is still a certain limit. If you want to further improve your ability to control the spiritual energy, you should not chase the sheep, but grab the leader.
What is a head sheep, the five elements aura is the five head sheep, and these five head sheep are derived from the two giants of yin and yang. If you can find one of the five head sheep of gold, wood, water, fire and soil, you can control one-fifth of the world. The two big sheep of Yin and Yang can control the entire real world condensed by breath.
However, the five headed sheep and the two giants are not specific five independent individuals and two larger individuals composed of these five independent individuals, but the five and larger groups of the huge group derived from the five elements and yin and yang. two commonalities.
Regardless of yin and yang, just talking about the five elements, these five commonalities can also be understood as five trends. If you want to control the trend, the most effective way is not to exert external force and try to change the trend, but to be in it and lead the trend with yourself. To put it bluntly, it is to become one of the five-headed sheep.
If you want to join this team and become the leader of this team, you must first understand this team, but the environment he is in is not suitable for him to carry out deeper deductions, so he can only temporarily store this idea in his mind and strengthen it , to be extended later.
He is a Taiyuan practitioner and has a strong memory, so he can store his thoughts, but it is difficult for ordinary people to do this. In fact, this is the truth. For a better idea, or a better plan, or what purpose you want to achieve, you need to constantly strengthen it, and always remind yourself not to forget it. Only in this way can Unswervingly move towards the established goal.
One of the most common mistakes people make is that the goal is not firm enough. They often randomly adjust the established goal according to the objective situation. At the beginning, the non-Changbai Mountain ginseng girl who swears and chops her fingers will not marry. In the end, he went to Hainan Island and married a fisherman. What is this?
This is to deviate from the original intention, to go with the flow, to compromise with destiny, and to live with life.
Enlightenment is an extremely complex thinking activity, which needs to be constrained by rational logic and diffused by perceptual thinking. Thinking that the human nature of the world is not stable enough, and often adjusting the way forward, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of another problem, that is, when he is changing his form. The mental state is a very stable state, and you know very clearly what you want to become. If the image in your mind is very vague when you change, you may not know what the ghost will look like.
This shows that the stronger and more stable a person’s willpower is, the more things can be mastered and controlled. People can only have what they understand and can control. People who can only drive a tractor, even if they give him a Ferrari, he will He had to go into the ditch too, because he couldn’t handle it.
Pushing people with oneself, the reason why he has not yet spawned the Nascent Soul, and has not yet possessed the ability to recreate the universe from the past to the present, is mainly because his will is not firm enough, his spiritual sense is not strong enough, his knowledge and experience are not rich enough, and he is still not good enough to the world. lack of sufficient understanding.
Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan did not continue to spread out, but retracted his thoughts, picked up the shovel and added a few pieces of coal to the stove, then ignited it with the aura of fire, and then filled the kettle with water and placed it on it. He will come back to rest later.
The nights in the early spring are still very cold. At seven or eight o’clock, there are no people on the street. Wu Zhongyuan came to another house. The men in the family were watching TV in the East Room, while a group of women gathered in the West Room, with middle-aged women. Mostly, including a young girl.
These middle-aged women seem to be relatives of this girl, including her mother, who is educating this girl, using the tone of someone who has come, and using their own experience to persuade the girl which boy should she choose.
The girl originally wanted to choose Zhang San, who dared to fight and dare, because she liked this kind of men. Later, under the earnest and good-hearted persuasion of these relatives, she gradually changed her mind and began to prefer Li Si, who was self-abiding.
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In the end, the seven aunts and the eight aunts went away with a look of relief, and Wu Zhongyuan also quietly retreated, with disappointment and regret.
A person must have a backbone and believe in his own feelings. What a person likes at the beginning will like in the end. People who like horses at the beginning cannot choose cattle just because they were kicked by horses. The horse, because of choking and giving up food, is a taboo to go left or right, and there will be endless troubles.
The biggest mistakes in the world are often made by people who think they are right. The kindness of these seven aunts and eight aunts cannot be denied, but they are just a group of uninformed women, and their lives have not been successful. Experience and opinions are actually of no reference value. They don’t even understand the simple truth of deciding who should bear the consequences. They do bad things with good intentions.
The most hateful thing is this girl’s mother, who even forced her daughter to follow her own advice by saying, ‘You have to be mad at me,’ ‘If you marry him, don’t enter the house in the future’, which is another incompetence. Parents, it is selfish to insist on letting their children pay for their own ideas.
The girl herself is also clueless, ignorant, loyal and filial. She would rather grieve herself and make her parents feel better. This kind of person is very scary. The most terrible thing is that she uses the opinions of others as a reference. , it also depends on what kind of persuasion it is, only successful people have the qualifications to persuade others, and the advice of losers is worthless.
After ten o’clock in the evening, Wu Zhongyuan returned to the place where he stayed. In fact, he was not sleepy, but at this time everyone had already started to rest, and it was often unsuitable for children to see through the wall.
The more sober his mind became, the more smoky he saw and the more devastated he was. Wu Zhongyuan lay on the bench and let out a sigh of relief. Tomorrow, he will try to change his observation angle to look for simplicity, truth, kindness and beauty…
[End of this Chapter]
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